People are infinitely more complex than what we are used to in our daily education stemming from the highly controlled filtered environment of schools, our parents and peers. We don't get much from those institutions in terms of the real juice, real knowledge. We generally get some bits and pieces here and there that grow into a network of behavioral patterns. It is mostly conflict as we generally are not being taught principles of communication, although in some cultures that may not be exactly so. But in Western it is.
For example, "be polite" is a lived out phrase, as politeness is in a deep respect of the other person's inner nature, which is that, ultimately, of a luminous being. That is why the Indian "Namaste" refers to the greeting of the deity within. We generally just don't have time to figure these things out in this very busy life. But we can try at least....
As beings of energy we are infinitely more complex, we are not bound by patterns, and even socialization. In other words, since everything is in the state of a constant movement, flux (for the seer), even the "dead" matter is moving, albeit at slower rates. The communication are waves of energy being projected back and forth, they intertwine sometimes uniting people and bringing them closer, other times they are repelling, distancing, many create seemingly insurmountable barriers, hardly reachable. Waves upon waves upon waves, energy projecting energy. How does one deal with this sort of complexity in the daily life. It is not an easy question to answer as being aware of constant change is an art form, something that can be trained. Also, vision of this sort can be trained by letting go of patterns and habits. On a simple level, if you bang yourself on the wall, it is perhaps better not to try to bash through it.
In the work place, this is being signified by a certain rigidity of behavior, as there is a code to follow. However, mindlessly following such code leads not only to rigidity, but also to a loss of stature, as nobody is that perfect. So one must consider that there is a constant interplay of will that becomes the energy being projected outwardly. Just look at some of the Alex Grey paintings and you will see exactly what I am talking about.
So perhaps your co-worker is on the different wavelength. She is trying to achieve something that you don't perhaps understand. You can listen to her, and then respond properly, without trying to sound brash. In the case that she insists, perhaps that's the time to be more savvy, and have a tactic of how to avoid an unnecessary interference. Create a schedule, and have her follow an appointed time. Explain to her how important that is for your both success. If you need to avoid unnecessary contacts - just avoid them without having to have an excuse. Remember your priorities.
Study yourself in every way and know your emotional capacities. What you are capable of, and where the limits of your capabilities are being stretched - this is also the way of energy. The closer you come to seeing its flow, the less there should be a need for conflict, i.e. clash of interest as a resolving force. If you rely on the others to do that work for you, that may never come along, simply because there ain't no one that can be as interested in that as you. It is in your own interest to have your schedule strictly delineated in terms of what kind of influences are needed and what kind are not. Think about it, and you will see that just the fact that there is a lot of communication, does not necessarily mean that it is all needed to be there. Some of it must be dropped, other nurtured, and some new perhaps have to come into life. However, if you are starving for communication you won't see that difference, as if you a starving in anything - it all goes. All food, all people, it's all just seems like a gain. For someone who can discern the difference - things are different and some are preferable, while others are not. Take up the challenge - enter the world of energy and see for yourself.
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